Hey girls! I just had to share my story with y’all about finding that inner strength and building up my confidence. You know, we all have those days when we look in the mirror and just don’t feel like the badass babes we truly are. Well, I’ve been there too, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride.
I used to be the girl who would shy away from speaking up in a group. I’d be worried about what others would think of me, if my opinion was even worth sharing. I’d see other confident women strutting around, owning every room they walked into, and I’d envy them so much. But I didn’t realize that I had that same potential deep inside me.
It all started when I decided to take a small step out of my comfort zone. I signed up for a local dance class. Now, I wasn’t a natural dancer by any means. In fact, I was pretty clumsy at first. But the thing was, I was surrounded by other women who were all there for different reasons too. Some wanted to get fit, some just loved to dance, and some were like me, trying to break out of their shells.
In that dance class, I made a fool of myself more times than I can count. I’d trip over my own feet, forget the steps, and at times, I felt like everyone was judging me. But then I noticed something. The other women were too focused on their own progress and having fun to really care about my little mishaps. And that’s when it hit me. We’re all so worried about what others think of us, but most of the time, they’re not even paying that close attention!
This realization was like a lightbulb moment for me. I started to let go of that fear of being judged and just focused on myself. I practiced the dance moves at home, in front of the mirror, and I’d talk to myself. I’d say things like, “Girl, you got this! You look amazing even when you mess up!” And slowly but surely, I started to feel more confident.
Not only did my confidence grow in the dance class, but it spilled over into other areas of my life. I started speaking up more at work. I’d share my ideas during meetings, and instead of waiting for someone else to take the lead, I’d volunteer for projects. And you know what? People started to notice me in a different way. They respected my opinions and saw me as someone who was capable and confident.
Another thing that really helped me build my confidence was dressing in a way that made me feel good. I used to just throw on whatever was comfortable, but then I realized that when I put on an outfit that I loved, that fit me well and showed off my style, I felt like a whole new person. It wasn’t about wearing the trendiest clothes or the most expensive brands. It was about finding what made me feel like a million bucks.
I remember one day I put on this bright red dress that I had been saving for a special occasion. I paired it with some killer heels and a statement necklace. When I walked out of the house, I felt like I could conquer the world. And that day, I walked with my head held high, smiled at everyone I passed, and I got so many compliments. But it wasn’t the compliments that mattered the most. It was the way I felt inside. I felt powerful and confident.
Traveling also played a huge role in building my confidence. I took a solo trip to a new city. At first, I was terrified. I worried about getting lost, not being able to communicate with the locals, and all sorts of things. But once I arrived and started exploring, I realized that I was capable of handling whatever came my way. I navigated the public transportation, found amazing local cafes and shops on my own, and I even made some new friends along the way.
That solo trip taught me that I could rely on myself. I didn’t need someone else to hold my hand and guide me through life. I had the skills and the strength within me to take on new challenges and experiences. And that confidence in myself has only continued to grow.
Now, I’m not saying that I’m a super confident woman all the time. There are still days when I doubt myself, when I feel a little insecure. But the difference is, I now know how to pick myself up and remind myself of all the amazing things I’ve accomplished. I look back at that girl who was too shy to speak up in a group and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
So, to all my fellow ladies out there, I want to tell you that you have that inner strength too. You might not see it right now, but it’s there, waiting for you to unleash it. Take that small step out of your comfort zone, whether it’s signing up for a class, wearing something that makes you feel good, or taking a solo trip. Embrace the journey of building your confidence because when you do, you’ll empower yourself in ways you never thought possible. And trust me, it’s an amazing feeling to walk through life knowing that you are a confident, empowered woman!