So, I’m just gonna say it—solo travel changed my life. And no, I’m not being dramatic. 🙃 If you’ve ever thought about packing your bags and heading out into the world alone, but hesitated because, well, society or fear or what will people think, let me tell you: it’s time to stop overthinking and start living.
I remember the first time I decided to travel solo. I was sitting in my tiny apartment, scrolling through Instagram, and I came across this photo of a woman standing on a cliff in Iceland, looking like she owned the world. I thought, “Why not me?” But then the doubts crept in. “Is it safe? What if I get lonely? What if I can’t figure out the public transport in a foreign country?” (Spoiler: I got lost. Multiple times. And it was fine.)
But here’s the thing: solo travel isn’t just about seeing new places. It’s about discovering parts of yourself you didn’t even know existed. It’s about realizing that you’re capable of so much more than you ever imagined.
Let’s start with the obvious: safety. Yes, it’s a concern, and it should be. But here’s the thing—women are resourceful AF. I learned to trust my instincts, do my research, and always have a backup plan. I stayed in hostels with all-female dorms, joined group tours when I felt unsure, and made friends with locals who showed me the hidden gems of their cities. And you know what? I felt safer than I ever expected.
Then there’s the fear of being lonely. I’ll admit, there were moments when I missed having someone to share the experience with. But those moments were rare. Instead, I found myself surrounded by incredible people—other solo travelers, locals, and even the occasional kind stranger who offered to take my photo (because, let’s be real, we all need that perfect Instagram shot).
One of the most empowering things about solo travel is the freedom it gives you. You can wake up and decide to do whatever you want. No compromises, no debates, no “but I don’t feel like it.” Want to spend the entire day wandering through a museum? Go for it. Want to cancel all your plans and spend the afternoon sipping wine at a café? Do it. It’s your trip, your rules.
And let’s talk about the confidence boost. Navigating a foreign city, ordering food in a language you don’t speak, figuring out how to get from point A to point B—it’s all a little intimidating at first. But every time you succeed, you feel like a superhero. By the end of my trip, I was walking around like I owned the place.
But here’s the real magic of solo travel: it teaches you to be comfortable with yourself. When you’re alone, you have no choice but to confront your thoughts, your fears, and your dreams. You learn to enjoy your own company. And that’s a skill that stays with you long after you’ve returned home.
So, if you’re still on the fence about solo travel, let me give you a little push. Start small—maybe a weekend trip to a nearby city. Or go big—book that flight to Bali you’ve been dreaming about. Whatever you do, just go. Because the world is waiting for you, and trust me, you’re ready for it.